I hope all my readers out there in blog land are doing their due diligence in keeping up with their breast checks – and yes, men can get breast cancer too. The following picture is a poem a friend gave me when I was diagnosed. I cross stitched it for breast cancer – but it applies to them all!!!
I’m a Breast Cancer survivor – 12 years and counting. And, I’m here to tell you that you MUST listen to your body and be your own patient advocate always. So, here’s why that’s so important…
In the fall of 2006 I found a lump in my left breast. I was already scheduled for a mammogram, so they looked more closely at the lump. The Radiologist report came back “nothing to worry about”. So, I tried not to worry. However, said lump continued to get larger. In late January 2007 I talked to a friend about it who is a nurse. Her reaction was. “You need to immediately get a second opinion.”
This doctor sent me for a second mammogram and then a biopsy – results BREAST CANCER!
I had a double mastectomy, did 4 months of chemo, (I chose not to also have radiation), 12 months of weekly Herceptin and 5 years of Arimidex.
Yet I shouldn’t worry!
I learned so much (that I really didn’t particularly want to know) – first – you MUST be your own patient advocate. Ask a gazillion questions, do your own research, make your own decisions! And of course, check your own breasts and have those mammograms!
That’s such an important message Iris. We do have to be our own advocates. Doctors only know what they know, yet we’ve been with our bodies since the beginning.
And a message so many don’t know or realize. So, I’ll keep telling.
You are SO right. We know our own bodies by now. Sure we don’t know everything, but we have to keep exploring and making sure to get the right help. Did you ever read “Cancer Schmancer”? I always love how Fran Drescher told the story.
PS…I’m still not getting your emails….
I have not read that – I need to check on it. I have added you to my subscribers, have no idea what happened. I failed to post to the blog this last week – life just got in the way. But will have one this Friday as part of the group. Maybe in the next couple of weeks you could let me know if you start receiving the emails.
Glad you’re still here with us, Iris! And that cross-stitch looks familiar 😉
Yeah, I’m glad I’m still around too – and it should look familiar. Glad you’re still here too. 🙂